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I was offered a job at an ad agency where I could live out my Peggy Olson Mad Men dreams. When I got there, everything felt totally wrong. At first, she didn't want to take me on because she said 'no one really wants to move to Ohio.' I assured her that I did. I found a headhunter to help me find a job. Several years ago, I was sure that I wanted to move back to Ohio and re-ignite a relationship with an ex-boyfriend. The environment, the immediacy will help crystalize your feelings.' That means gathering as much real-life information as you can - visiting prospective schools, standing in living rooms, walking around the building of the new job, 'getting the feel' of the place, talking to other workers. 'Instead, you’ll get most clear by getting as close you can to the decision. 'You can’t decide what school to go to, whether to take the job or buy the house by mulling about it while sitting on a couch, or looking at pictures of houses online,' Robert Taibbi L.C.S.W. Just like the old Schoolhouse Rock videos tout, knowledge really is power. If you find yourself changing your mind a lot, there are few ways to help you make better decisions and stick with them. For example, maybe that dream job also comes with a sexist boss, a soul-sucking cubicle, and a nightmare commute. Sometimes it's easy to get caught up in the fantasy of something without really considering the reality of it.

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Perhaps this is why making actual pro and con lists is not a bad idea. And, once you are actually offered that 'dream job,' all of the cons can suddenly rise at once - swiftly knocking down the pros. The both start out equally at the base of the triangle, but as you get closer to making a decision the pros and cons rise to the triangle's point at different rates. One side is basically your 'pro' list and the other side is the 'con' list. Why do you change your mind at the last minute? The answer is based in what psychologists call the decision apex - that moment when you must decide if you actually really want to get married, or accept that job offer. Suddenly you do an about face and decide it's really not what you want at all. I hope people can listen to this song and find some comfort in the fact that in our own ways, we're all fucked, but at least we're all fucked together.You've likely had an experience where you've been so sure about something right up until the moment when it's about to happen. This song reflects how I often approach my mental health in reality, which is with self-deprecation, sarcasm, and even laughing at the madness that goes on up there. Learning to accept the mind you have for all its beauty and its faults is a process that never stops. When asked about the meaning of the catchy song, Carly confessed: 'on 'Change My Mind' I'm really juggling with the idea of self-acceptance as someone who lives with a mind that often feels like an overwhelming maze.

The dynamic imagery of the video (directed by Claire Schmitt) brings to life the relatable story behind 'Change My Mind,' which celebrates the internal messiness of human thought. There's serenity in the final moment as Carly walks out of the remnants of the room into the unknown.

The chaos builds until the big reveal: her bedroom walls themselves come down to expose a desert landscape. Suddenly, she's donning a more mature look while spray painting her walls, tearing pages out of her beloved books, and even smashing her lamp. Just as soon as we think we know Carly she changes as if she were growing up before our very eyes. The whole scene gives you a sense of adolescence and '90s nostalgia, making you feel as though you're watching an edgier, alternative Lizzie McGuire as she plays with her camcorder and sings into a hairbrush.īut don't be fooled, this video is not that simple. The eccentric decor seamlessly matches Carly's layered shirts and hair scrunchie. The video begins in Carly's perfectly-lived-in bedroom, a space littered with records, books, clothes, art, and candy. In total harmony with the anthemic tune, which just debuted on Spotify's New Music Friday, this video manages to be fun, introspective, and complex all at the same time.

In the new music video for her infectious single 'Change My Mind,' alt-pop cool girl Carly Rose gives us a glimpse into her most intimate thoughts and environment.

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